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Quick Quiz: Should I Divorce My Spouse (Husband/Wife)
Deciding whether to stay in a relationship or pursue separation can be one of the most challenging decisions in life. The True/False Divorce Readiness Quiz offers insight into your emotional and mental preparedness to explore these possibilities. It’s essential to understand that relationship upsets are normal, and many conflicts can be resolved with the right tools and effort. Taking this quiz isn’t just about jumping to conclusions—it’s about evaluating where you stand and determining whether your relationship issues are temporary or indicate deeper, more permanent concerns.
Conflict, frustration, and even periods of emotional distance can be signals of issues that are entirely fixable. Sometimes, it’s about adjusting expectations, improving communication, or seeking professional help through counseling. This quiz is a starting point for reflecting on your relationship’s health and deciding whether it’s worth working through challenges or exploring separation. Before taking the quiz, remind yourself that this process is part of personal growth, whether that leads to reconciliation or further clarity about your next steps.
Divorce Readiness Quiz
1. In the last six months, my partner has changed their exercise, dress and grooming regime to look younger or fitter.
2. I have not had sex with my partner in over one month and there are no medical issues preventing me or my partner
3. I suspect that my partner is cheating.
4. I can’t remember the last time sex was good.
5. I can’t remember why I married my partner in the first place.
6. I don’t have access to the marital accounts, or the access that I have is very limited.
7. I am currently involved in a romantic relationship with someone other than my partner.
8. My partner has been diagnosed (by someone other than me and google) with a mental disorder/disease and fails to seek counseling or medical treatment.
9. My partner has an addiction to drugs, alcohol, porn, gambling, shopping, etc. but fails to seek treatment to address the addiction.
10. We fight more than we laugh.
Divorce Readiness Quiz Scoring Guide
Score: 1 or 2
You are probably in need of some marital counseling or a good, old-fashioned date night with your spouse that includes a heart-to-heart conversation.
Score: 2 to 5
Your marriage is salvageable but will take a lot of work. You need to ask yourself, “Does my desire to fix this marriage outweigh my exhaustion at trying to do so?” If so, then you should explore marital counseling. It is also advisable to consult with a lawyer just to understand the law and your rights and responsibilities.
Score: Greater than 5
You may want to consult a collaborative family law attorney.
If the results of the True/False Divorce Readiness Quiz indicate that your relationship may be on unstable ground, it’s essential not to panic. Relationships often go through difficult phases, and a rough patch doesn’t necessarily mean the end. What’s important is recognizing the underlying issues and addressing them with intention and care. You might be feeling overwhelmed or uncertain about what steps to take next, but remember that even bad results can offer a pathway to positive change.
Here are some things to consider based on your results:
1. Open Communication:
If communication is lacking, this is often one of the most fixable aspects of a relationship. Consider discussing your concerns openly with your partner, focusing on the issues that seem to keep coming up. Counseling or a neutral third-party mediator can also help bridge communication gaps and provide tools to resolve conflicts.
2. Counseling or Therapy:
Therapy isn’t just for couples who are about to separate. Many relationships benefit from counseling that allows both partners to understand their individual triggers and emotional needs. Seeking help doesn’t mean the relationship is doome—it means you’re willing to put in the work to improve it.
3. Considering Separation:
In some cases, taking a temporary separation can provide clarity. It allows both partners to reflect on what they truly want from the relationship without the pressures of day-to-day interactions. This space can help reveal whether reconciliation is possible or whether it’s time to explore a more permanent separation.
4. Divorce as an Option:
If divorce feels like the only solution, you don’t have to approach it with dread or hostility. Divorce doesn’t have to be a battleground—it can be a respectful and thoughtful process, especially if you consider a collaborative divorce. Collaborative divorce allows you and your partner to negotiate terms in a more amicable and supportive environment. It keeps the lines of communication open and focuses on reaching mutual agreements regarding finances, assets, and parenting.
5. Self-Care and Support:
Going through relationship uncertainty can be emotionally taxing. Remember to take care of yourself during this time. Surround yourself with supportive friends and family members, practice self-care, and allow yourself time to process your emotions. No matter the outcome, ensuring that your mental and emotional health is a priority will help you make decisions with a clear mind.
Ultimately, this quiz serves as a tool to gain deeper insight into your relationship and yourself. The next steps, whether toward resolution or separation, should be taken with mindfulness, patience, and a commitment to doing what’s best for both you and your partner. Whether you choose to work through the issues or pursue a divorce, knowing that you have options, such as collaborative divorce, empowers you to approach the situation with dignity and respect for everyone involved.
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