Focus on What You Can Control During Divorce

You don’t get to choose your parents
You don’t get to pick the country you are born in
You don’t get to pick your given talent
You don’t get to choose where you start, but you can change where you go:
Integrity is a choice
Kindness is a choice
Hard Work is a choice
Preparation is a choice
Consistency is a choice
Your attitude is a choice
Your response is a choice
This could not be more important than when you are facing the difficulty of divorce. Be very careful of the choices you make at this time. Your future happiness depends on it.
If you choose to be kind, prepared, respectful and not retaliatory or reactionary during your divorce process, you will recover, heal and move on so much more quickly and thoroughly than if you look back on this difficult time in your life and feel shame and remorse.
Collaborative and mediated divorce is a process available to you. It doesn’t have to be like the celebrity divorces or your friend’s, she tells you endless about how horrible hers was.
Make good choices. We can help.