What if I didn’t blame my partner for anything and held myself 100 percent accountable?
What if I checked my own stuff at the door and put my kids first?
What if I reminded myself of the things about my partner that I like and fostered the friendship?
If you could do even some of those things, then you will be able to divorce differently.
You will be able to unwind your marriage or relationship in a way that reduces trauma, shortens the grief journey, protects your kids, and preserves your assets.
What’s more, you will be able to control the cost and the time it takes to get the divorce done.